Shadows we ignore
(Psychological POV
of Kolkata Rape Case)
By Shreya Sehgal
No
one ever imagines that the dead of night, when they are lost in the depths of
sleep, could be the moment their life would be stolen away. Right? Abhaya also
slept for a short while thinking she will soon get up and continue her work.
She got up only to be ripped off her dignity and put to silence forever.
A
31-year-old female, filled with aspirations to make a difference in society,
became the victim of a heinous crime that unfolded in the very institution
where she studied and worked . The brutal rape and murder of a young,
promising, and ambitious doctor within the premises of the RG Kar Medical
College in Kolkata has sent shockwaves throughout the medical community and the
whole country . The recent Kolkata rape case has left an indelible mark on our
collective consciousness. It's a gut-wrenching reminder of the
deep-rooted issue that intertwines psychological, societal, and cultural
factors—not just another statistic in the growing list of crimes against women,
but a multifaceted issue.
Beyond
the legal battles and media outrage, there lies an often overlooked but crucial
dimension; the psychological impact. This blog sheds light on the motives of
the perpetrator, the profound impact on the victim, and the ripple effect on
society, and the nation’s healthcare systems.
INDIGNIFIED
DIGNITY
Assaulted
and barely clothed, her body was found at 9.30 a.m., and the principal of the institution was informed, however, no
active action was taken. At 4.40 p.m., a hurried inquest was conducted in
the presence of two female doctors, as ordered by the Additional Chief Judicial
Magistrate, Sealdah court. It revealed multiple injuries over the
abdomen, left leg, right hand, lips, neck, and genital area and signs of
strangulation.
Later
in the evening, between 6.10 - 7.10, an autopsy was conducted at the same
institution under videography, and the victim’s body was taken hurriedly to the
crematorium with a police force. It was cremated at the Panihati crematorium
around midnight. The body was not handed over to her parents at R. G. Kar
Little did she know, she would be attacked and brutally raped by a rapist. No
girl would ever want that, we cannot comment her on the clothes she was wearing
that were definitely a doctor's uniform. Imagining the pain she went through
was unimaginable, everyone deserves safety at least in their own
workplace. The brutal killing of a young girl, taken to such horrific
extremes, reflects an unimaginable level of inhumanity. The accused, Sanjay Roy, a repeat offender with a history of
heinous crimes, stands as a chilling reminder of the dangers lurking in
society. The devastation for the girl's parents is beyond comprehension—they
could never have foreseen such a nightmare unfolding in their lives. This
atrocity demands urgent attention to the systemic failures that allow such
predators to roam freely. After the interrogation of the girl’s body, it
was found there was 150 mg of semen in her body .
UNDERSTANDING
THE CRIMINAL MINDSET
Now,
understanding the criminal mindset of the rapist he must be prone to all this
due to the following reasons –
Observational Learning- It is a possibility that he might have observed someone
in his family behave disrespectfully towards girls. As we say, family is the
root for every child to grow into a beautiful human being. However, if the
family members have a history of attempting rape, eve teasing or sex offense,
it is likely that the child might do the imitating behavior of the family
members.
Childhood trauma and abuse- Experiencing sexual, physical,
or emotional abuse during childhood can significantly affect a person’s
psychological development. Some offenders may be reenacting their trauma or
attempting to gain a sense of power they lacked in the past.
Lack of empathy and emotional regulation - A significant
factor is an inability to empathize with the victim, coupled with poor
emotional regulation. This lack of empathy makes it easier for the perpetrator
to dehumanize their victim and justify their actions. After this incident,
girls all across the country have begun to be more wary of their surroundings.
WHO
IS ENDURING THE PAIN – PARENTS...
The
horror of one’s child being subjected to rape and later trauma is a situation
that no parents would wish to be found in, and is a situation that shakes up
their entire existence. In most cases, that of parents is often limiting to the
negative angle of society that portrays the victim and the offender with a lot
of emphasis however parents suffer as much and their emotional trauma should be
equally looked up to. In cases of this nature such as that of Nirbhaya, the
parents’ aftermath was a life filled with loss, hopelessness and an
overwhelming yearning for retribution. Their story was one of grit and their
faces became the epitome of the noisy disgust that the country demonstrated
towards the violence against women. But behind the strength they portrayed in
public, lay a deep unbearable grief.
Such
grieving parents are often consumed by excessive thoughts of guilt and
self-blame and very often never learn to question their ability to keep their
children safe. This is in addition to the censure by the various sectors of
society in the case of the society outside the family even within the family
structure these distancing tendencies exist. In traditional societies, families may be shunned, lynched,
or even blamed for the questions of their rearing or the rearing of the victim.
The
mindset of sex offenders stems from a complex interplay of societal, familial,
and neurological factors. In culturally conservative societies like India, the
practice of strictly separating boys and girls during childhood fosters an
unnatural curiosity about the opposite gender. By suppressing opportunities for
healthy, natural interactions, this separation breeds misconceptions, mistrust,
and a distorted understanding of relationships.
ROLE
OF SOCIETY AND PARENTS TOWARDS THE DELINQUENT BEHAVIOUR
Parenting
plays a pivotal role here. Early childhood attachment styles secure or insecure
significantly influence how individuals regulate emotions and form
relationships. Neglectful or inconsistent parenting can foster insecure
attachment styles, leading to traits like poor impulse control, lack of
empathy, or emotional instability, which are often linked to antisocial
tendencies. Neurologically, dysfunction in the prefrontal cortex, which governs
self-regulation, and the amygdala, which processes emotions, further
exacerbates these behaviors.
Society’s
insistence on segregating genders only deepens these issues. It prevents
children from learning mutual respect, empathy, and healthy communication,
reinforcing toxic dynamics between genders. To counter this, parents and
educators must create environments that normalize respectful interactions from
an early age. By fostering secure attachment, teaching emotional regulation,
and encouraging healthy gender dynamics, society can work towards reducing such
behaviour’s at their root.
FEMALE
DOCTORS STATE OF MIND IN HOSPITALS
Secondary
trauma is especially prevalent among female physicians because they cope even
with the agony of victims. This is aggravated further when they are able to put
themselves in the victims’ shoes or that of their loved ones. These emotions,
especially when such workers are frequently exposed to the adverse effects of
violence, may result in burnout, compassion fatigue, or even depression.
The
Nirbhaya incident brought this burden to the forefront. Medical caregivers who
managed to save the girl were praised yet such professionals admitted having a
hard time coping with their emotions after the incident. Many reported
suffering from the case, and unable to understand why such a harsh injustice
had happened, experienced rage and grief for the victim that exceeded their
efforts in breaking the girl’s history. Most likely, in the Kolkata case, even
the female doctors are faced with unresolved issues of the same nature: global
caring for one’s professional responsibility and individual psychological
health, without any adequate measures to help them.
Conclusion
In
conclusion, to address these challenges, society must foster empathy, dismantle
stigma, and build robust support systems for everyone affected by sexual
violence. By doing so, we can ensure that parents and medical professionals
alike find the strength to heal and advocate for a safer world. The journey is
long, but every step toward understanding and compassion brings us closer to
breaking the cycle of violence and its aftermath
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Shreya
Sehgal is an intern at Inspired Living and has completed her Bachelor’s degree
in Psychology from Indira Gandhi National Open University (IGNOU). An avid
reader and writes blogs , she enjoys analyzing current events through a
psychological lens and sharing her critical insights. All opinions expressed in
her blogs are her own. For inquiries or doubts feel free to reach out to her at
shreya.sehgal2002@gmail.com